Shopping for your bridal gown is a momentous step in your wedding journey, but it can feel like a big task. That’s why we at The White Closet in Tampa are here to guide you every step of the way. Whether you’re brimming with ideas or starting with a blank slate, these tips will make your bridal shopping experience fun, stress-free, and unforgettable!
Start Early (but Not Too Early!)
Timing is everything when it comes to finding your dream gown. Bridal dresses are often made to order, which means they take time - usually 6-9 months for production. Add another 2-3 months for fittings and alterations to ensure your dress fits like a glove. Starting your search about a year before your wedding date gives you ample time to explore without feeling rushed.
Set a Budget and Stick to It
Your wedding dress is a significant investment, so it’s important to set a clear budget upfront. Keep in mind that your budget should include more than just the gown itself - factor in alterations, accessories (like veils, shoes, and jewelry), and any taxes or fees.
For example, if your total budget is $2,000, allocate $1,500 for the dress and the rest for extras. Share this information with your stylist so they can pull gowns within your price range, saving you from falling for a dress outside your budget. And remember, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity to find a gown that you’ll cherish forever, so we always encourage brides to be thoughtful about their budget! Choosing to spend a little extra on your bridal gown is definitely an expense we think is well worth it.
Research and Get Inspired
Before stepping into any boutique, spend some time browsing bridal magazines, social media, and websites. Save photos of gowns you love, paying attention to details like silhouettes (A-line, ballgown, mermaid), fabrics (lace, satin, crepe), and necklines (V-neck, sweetheart, halter).
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At the same time, remember that bridal gowns look different on real bodies than they do in photos. While inspiration is helpful, the best way to know what suits you is to try on a variety of styles. Also, don’t get caught up about sizes - bridal gowns tend to run small, so you might need a gown 2-3 sizes larger than what you normally wear. No biggie!
Choose Your Dream Team Wisely
Your bridal shopping crew can make or break the experience. Invite only 2-3 people whose opinions you trust and who know your personal style. A smaller group ensures the focus stays on you rather than navigating too many conflicting opinions.
If you’re unsure who to invite, consider your mom, best friend, or sibling - someone who will uplift you and help you stay true to your vision. And if you prefer to do it solo, that’s cool, too! Many brides want to savor the experience by themselves so they can make a decision without external opinions getting in the way of what they truly want.
Wear the Right Undergarments
Undergarments play a crucial role in how a gown looks and feels. Nude or skin-toned seamless undergarments are ideal since they won’t show through most dresses. Bring a strapless bra if you’re considering strapless gowns, and wear shapewear if you plan to use it on your wedding day.
Shoes with a similar heel height to what you’ll wear on your wedding day can also help you visualize the full look.
Be Honest About Your Vision
Your stylist is there to help you, but they’re not mind-readers! Share as much information as possible about your wedding day - your venue, theme, color palette, and even the vibe you’re going for (classic elegance, modern chic, boho romance).
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For instance, if you’re having a beach wedding, your stylist might recommend a lightweight gown with flowy chiffon, while a cathedral ceremony might call for a dramatic ballgown with a long train.
Trust the Process - and Your Stylist!
Sometimes, the dress you fall in love with isn’t what you initially envisioned. Many brides are surprised when they try on a style they didn’t expect to love and discover it’s “the one.”
Your stylist has seen it all and knows how to match you with gowns that complement your body type and personality. Be open to their suggestions - they might just lead you to your perfect dress.
Give Yourself Grace
Bridal shopping is emotional, and it’s okay if your journey doesn’t look like what you see in movies. Not every bride cries when she finds her dress, and that’s completely normal. The right dress is the one that makes you feel confident, beautiful, and ready to walk down the aisle.
If you’re torn between two gowns, listen to your heart. Sometimes, imagining yourself walking down the aisle can help you make the final decision.
Celebrate the Moment!
Finding your wedding dress is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so take time to soak it all in. Snap photos, share the joy with your loved ones, and maybe even treat yourself to a celebratory lunch or glass of champagne afterward.
This milestone marks the start of an exciting chapter in your wedding planning journey - enjoy every second of it!
Ready to start your journey? Book your appointment today, and let’s find “the one” together!